01 Feb 2025
It took so much for me to start to really explore my gender identity. Years of questioning my orientation. Years of trans fascination that did not seem attainable to me (I had trouble perceiving trans as something within me). And then in faster succession - A mild car accident, the...
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27 Jan 2025
Back in June, I wrote about starting a new job and feeling apprehensive about coming out as trans right away. I was fairly confident it would happen eventually, but I wasn’t ready. At the time, I chose to tread lightly; dressing a bit more androgynously, wearing earrings, and keeping nail...
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06 Jan 2025
It’s been a while since I’ve found the time to sit down and write in long form. I’ve been active on Instagram still, just because sometimes it’s easier sometimes to dump a quick thought into a story post. I’ve also trying to practice my comfort with off-the-cuff public speaking through...
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27 Nov 2024
There once was a girl named Kai
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03 Sep 2024
In my line of work we sometimes talk about “transient states” which, in software application terms, usually refers to the temporary animations from one state to another. e.g When you hit the “ON” button and the page shifts things around, shows or hides content gracefully. It helps onlookers understand how...
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