A limerick

There once was a girl named Kai
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I’m living in a transient state

In my line of work we sometimes talk about “transient states” which, in software application terms, usually refers to the temporary animations from one state to another. e.g When you hit the “ON” button and the page shifts things around, shows or hides content gracefully. It helps onlookers understand how...
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Reflections on 1 year of hormone replacement

Recently I hit my 1-year mark of hormone replacement therapy (HRT). Many trans folks consider the year markers to be like the anniversaries of their rebirth. I’m not sure I hold hormones alone in such high regard. However, they have been a welcome and important part of my growth both...
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On meeting old friends and family for the first time

I have an old friend that I’ve known since I was 6 years old. The other night at my parents place we had a dinner with him, his gf and his parents, who I haven’t seen in 25 years probably.
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On the subject of transition and feeling

I recently wrote about my challenges with the world of seriously dating men, or attempting so. This was a kind of a heavy subject and a pretty big brain dump of ideas. I was actually worried when I posted it that it may just be too much, too personal or...
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