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It is sometimes hard to share my experience with people, either because the subject matter is too heavy to bring up in casual conversation, or the questions are never really asked. There remain things I would like to share, or would at least like to give friends and family the option to learn about so that they might understand me better.
30 Jul 2025
It’s been yet another long break from blogging, but this has been a different kind of year so far. I think generally it’s a good thing when I’m not writing here as often because the purpose of this blog originally was to help myself feel more understood by friends and...
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07 Mar 2025
I frequently hear the sentiment that women have it easier than men in online dating. This is because at a high level we most commonly see that women receive all the messages and get their pick, while men toil away, taking their shots one after another and frequently getting no...
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28 Feb 2025
Sometimes I reflect back on the way I used to date before I started exploring and transitioning. I really have trouble understanding what I was doing at times. Not because I can’t remember, but my detachment from myself had me navigating relationships very differently.
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01 Feb 2025
It took so much for me to start to really explore my gender identity. Years of questioning my orientation. Years of trans fascination that did not seem attainable to me (I had trouble perceiving trans as something within me). And then in faster succession - A mild car accident, the...
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27 Jan 2025
Back in June, I wrote about starting a new job and feeling apprehensive about coming out as trans right away. I was fairly confident it would happen eventually, but I wasn’t ready. At the time, I chose to tread lightly; dressing a bit more androgynously, wearing earrings, and keeping nail...
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